“Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house…” (Proverbs 5:8, NIV).
Are you strong enough to resist sin? Be careful before you answer! Proverbs 5 is a lesson Solomon taught his son about avoiding an adulterous woman. One of the most intriguing things about his instruction is that he doesn’t encourage his son to resist the woman. Instead, he says to stay far away from her.
I think this principle applies universally. Many times in my life I have prayed for the strength to resist temptation. But the Lord has reminded me time and again that wisdom is better than strength. When we think we’re strong, we’re in great danger! Rather than taking pride in our strength to resist, it’s far better to admit our weakness and avoid the temptation altogether.
If I avoid the opportunity to sin, I avoid the sin (whatever sin it may be). Maybe I could withstand the temptation and remain faithful, but why risk it? In seminary, I remember reading about a pastor who went into a strip club to meet with one of the strippers who’d visited his church. I hope he was strong enough to handle that and didn’t fall into sin. I will never know if I have that kind of strength because I’d rather have the wisdom to avoid testing my strength. I don’t want to find my limits!
Avoiding the “door of her house” is why I have Covenant Eyes on my computer and phone (and I highly recommend it for everyone). I’d love to be strong enough that I don’t need it, but I’d rather be wise, avoid the battle, and stay pure to the Lord and to my bride. My prayer for the week is that in whatever your struggle is, God will not only give you strength to endure but also wisdom to avoid.
“But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out…” (1 Corinthians 10:13, NIV).